Rogerian Argument Final Draft

Mary West

Professor Gordon

Composition II: Writing for Peace

18 April 2014

An Immodest Proposal

            “The world’s oldest profession” is not going away anytime soon, regardless of its legality. In countries where prostitution is illegal, there are many unfortunate situations that arise from the practice. Over 200,000 women and children are forced into prostitution through human trafficking every year in the United States (Human Trafficking). The victims in these situations are easy to identify, but are often blamed for the problem. Women cannot report rape for fear of being incarcerated, and brothels have no standards for safety and wellness because of their illegality. Pimps have control over many women who fear for their lives due to the abuse suffered from clients and from the terror of not bringing back enough money at the end of the night. This type of situation is not healthy for anyone, especially for the young women who often start prostituting at around age 13 (Human Trafficking). Marinela Badea is one of thousands of examples of young girls forced into this horrible crime. At only 17 years old, Marinela had been trafficked from Romania and was imprisoned in a club in England to become a prostitute (Townsend). Forced to serve up to 10 different men a day during her 12 hour shift, Marinela endured beatings and painful sex and only earned half of what the men paid to the brothel. After several months of these daily ordeals, Marinela and other Romanian girls, some with severe mental problems, were all taken to Manchester to a brothel by the name of Shangri-La. There, they were discovered by police who kept them in jail until she was able to prove her story, and she was soon reunited with her parents in Romania. Marinela’s traumatic years as a prostitute helped open Europe’s eyes to the “pan-European sex trade, [with] the vast majority [being] in Spain” (Townsend). Spain has legalized prostitution, but the sex trade still has an enormous presence there. Whether prostitution should be legalized or not has many arguments on both sides, but one point both views share is the importance of protecting innocent women. Prostitution has never been a “victimless crime,” as some say (Malarek). Marinela was put into jail when she was discovered, and even though she was safer behind bars than in the club, this “survivor” was treated like a criminal even though she was not at fault (Townsend). Imagine yoursister, mother, daughter, cousin, or friend disappearing one day only to return years later with a story like Marinela’s. Regardless of how you feel about the issue of legalizing prostitution, no one can say that they want this to happen in their own lives.

Green – Prostitution legal and regulated
Blue – Selling sexual services legal, but not regulated; brothels are illegal
Red – Prostitution Illegal

Those who oppose the legalization of prostitution have a multitude of legitimate reasons of why they think so. One such argument is that legalizing prostitution would increase the number of people harmed by human trafficking and the sex trade. Janice Raymond, director of the Coalition Against Trafficking in Women, states that the Netherlands is one of many countries to legalize prostitution and all aspects of the sex industry, including the women, the buyers, and the pimps. The Netherlands wanted to “end the exploitation of desperate immigrant women who had been trafficked there for prostitution,” because the majority of the sex workers in the Netherlands were from Central and Eastern European countries (Raymond). In 2000, the Dutch Ministry of Justice “argued in favor of a legal quote of foreign ‘sex workers,’ because the Dutch prostitution market demanded a variety of ‘bodies’,” further distancing the country from its original goal of helping immigrant women forced into prostitution (Raymond). Additionally, ever since the Dutch government lifted a ban on brothels, there have been several reports of an “increase in the number of victims of trafficking . . . [and] that the number of victims from other countries has not diminished,” so it is hard to see if any gains from the legalization of prostitution have actually occurred (Raymond). Immigrant women in the sex industry are a common thread between countries that have chosen to legalize prostitution. Germany realized back in 1993 that almost “75% of the women in Germany’s prostitution industry were foreigners,” though it was not until 2002 when it was established as a legitimate job (Raymond). The high numbers of foreign prostitutes heavily suggests that many are trafficked from other countries, given the high costs of transport and immigration. It would be “almost impossible for [these] poor women” to get into Germany on their own (Raymond).

Another view many opponents have is that the decriminalization of prostitution does not protect the women involved. As stated earlier, this should be the main goal of either side – to protect the innocent women who do not wish to be a part of the industry. Janice Raymond and her colleagues performed a study on 186 victims of “commercial sexual exploitation,” and they consistently said that the brothels, clubs, and other venues they worked for “did little to protect them,” regardless of their legal status. One of these women stated that “the only time they protect anyone is to protect the customers,” and another said that “anything could [have] happened” to her when she was on shift, as her bodyguard only served to protect the client (Raymond). All the women interviewed believed that their safety was of little or no importance to their pimps and supervisors. In Germany, there have been “no viable indications that the [law] has reduced crime” related to abuse suffered by sex workers (German Federal Ministry). One study showed that “68% of [people] in prostitution had post-traumatic stress disorder,” and this report had data from nine different countries where prostitution was legal, tolerated, and illegal (Farley).

I can definitely understand why opponents believe that prostitution should not be legalized, as I feel the same way toward many of their points. I do not wish for women to be trafficked to foreign countries to give away their rights, dignities, and humanity. I do not condone the abuse constantly suffered by women who have no choice in the matter of their “profession”. The decriminalization of prostitution is not something that should be on a global scale. Many countries cannot handle the legal issues and laws that stem from this complex issue, and therefore should work more on keeping women out of prostitution altogether. Countries like the Netherlands, Germany, and Australia all had good reasons for legalizing the industry, but none so far have carried it out in such a way that it could be seen as a good thing. Instead, trafficking still occurs at even higher rates, abuse of prostitutes is still prominent, and the sex trade in those countries is continuously expanding.

If, however, these countries and others, including the United States, were to look at the laws again, they could see how there is a lot of room for improvement. The countries that choose to legalize prostitution do not live to up to their promises in decreasing the trafficking of foreign women or the abuse of those in the system. Prostitution will never go away, at least not in our lifetimes. Instead of criminalizing the women involved, such as Marinela Badea, why not regulate the industry with a heavy hand? In the United States, for instance, Nevada is the only state to have legalized prostitution, and they have done it well. Counties choose whether or not they wish to allow legalized brothels, and workers must be tested for sexually transmitted diseases and infections weekly to stay in business (Prostitution Nevada). The laws prevent engaging in prostitution outside of licensed brothels, and there are very heavy fines in place for those who prostitute children (Prostitution Nevada). Because the legality of prostitution rests in the states’ hands, I believe that all states should take a vote as to whether or not the citizens of that state wish it to be legal. Legalizing and regulating prostitution does help to protect women and allows them to have a choice in their work.

Nevada is one of the few places that regulates the laws that protect women in prostitution. The mandatory condom use and other types of safe-sex practices are “typical in legal brothels,” like the ones in Nevada, and as a result the workers face less abuse from customers (Weitzer 31). Sociologists Barbara Brents and Kathryn Hausbeck argue that Nevada’s legalized brothels “offer the safest environment available for women to sell consensual sex acts for money” (Weitzer 31). Australia, another country with regulated prostitution also concluded that “there is no doubt that licensed brothels provide the safest working environment for sex workers . . . [and] provide a sustainable model for a healthy, crime-free, and safe licensed brothel industry” (Weitzer 31). Queensland brothels often have features such as panic buttons and listening devices to prevent unwanted advances on the workers (Weitzer 31). Further evidence also proves that the Netherlands has also taken steps to protect its sex workers, and a 2004 study done by the Ministry of Justice reported that “the vast majority of workers in Dutch brothels . . . ‘often or always feel safe’” (Weitzer 31). There is definitely conflicting evidence for both sides, but as the years go on, it seems that the regulations regarding prostitution have tightened in most of the world. The common link here is the legalization of brothels, rather than street prostitution. The majority of sex workers, even those in the United States, work as “indoor prostitutes,” like in brothels, clubs, and bars (Weitzel 28). Street prostitution, on the other hand, is obviously much harder to regulate because of the anonymity and lack of a central meeting place. Street prostitutes are far more likely to be supporting a drug habit, are more likely to contract sexually transmitted infections, and are often disconnected from any support services (Weitzer 28). Because of this, indoor and regulated prostitution allows women to have more control over their own lives.

There is much to be said about the differences between women who choose to become prostitutes versus those forced into the industry. At least in the United States, morality plays a large role in how people view prostitution and whether or not it should be legal. Harvard journalist Sarah Siskind puts it bluntly that “the law does not necessarily speak to morality. What is immoral is not always illegal, and what is illegal is not always immoral” (Siskind). The indoor prostitutes mentioned above often make “conscious decisions to enter the trade, they do not see themselves as oppressed victims and do not feel that their work is degrading” (Weitzer 29). They consequently obtain more satisfaction from their job than street prostitutes who are often harshly controlled by pimps and who have little say in what they do. Obviously, the indoor prostitutes surveyed cannot speak for all sex workers in the world, but their words do hold truth and should be respected. If women want to choose to sell their bodies in such a way that benefits both them and a client, who has the right to control that? Pornography, for instance, is a very similar act, in which actors are usually paid to have sex with each other. These actors are most often strangers, like in prostitution, they are paid, like prostitutes, yet the only difference is that there is a camera and an audience. Columnist Brandon Sams questions these policies, and wonders why “selling footage for mass consumption is somehow morally superior to more private, for-pay intimacy” (Sams). Legalizing prostitution would allow consenting adults to engage in activities in licensed, regulated places that allow for the safety of the women and that would benefit both parties.

Prostitution is a very complex subject with many facets, exceptions, laws, and regulations surrounding it. Those who force women into the industry should still be prosecuted, there is no doubt about that. But for the women who choose it as a profession, they deserve to have it respected and legalized. Brothels have the most successful rates in keeping women safe and happy in their positions, and should be taken into consideration when and if other countries think about decriminalizing prostitution. Countries must continue to prosecute and hunt down people who hurt innocent women like Marinela Badea, or the entire system will fail. Legalized prostitution will only be successful if there is a carefully selected and heavily moderated system of laws and regulations in place to protect those involved. Even if you do not support the legalization of prostitution, I hope you can see that many women do benefit from the protection and income that licensed brothels bring. At least in the United States, a national system of legalized prostitution would help many women and allow them to choose whatever path of life they wish.

Works Cited

Farley, Melissa. “The Real Harms of Prostitution.” The Harm of Prostitution Cannot Be Diminished by Legalising It., 19 Oct. 2010. Web. 20 Apr. 2014.

German Federal Ministry for Family Affairs, Senior Citizens, Women and Youth, Report by the Federal Government on the Impact of the Act Regulating the Legal Situation of Prostitutes (Prostitution Act), July 2007, pg. 79.

“Human Trafficking: Sexual Trafficking.” Washington State Office of the Attorney General. Web. 18 Apr. 2014.

Malarek, Victor and Melissa Farley. “The Myth of the Victimless Crime.” The New York Times. The New York Times, 11 Mar. 2008. Web. 18 Apr. 2014.

“Prostitution Nevada.” Prostitution In Nevada Laws. Web. 20 Apr. 2014.

Raymond, Janice G. “Ten Reasons For Not Legalizing Prostitution And A Legal Response To The Demand For Prostitution.” Journal Of Trauma Practice 2.3/4 (2003): 315-332. Academic Search Complete. Web. 20 Apr. 2014.

Sams, Brandon. “Criminalizing Prostitution Violates Personal Liberties.” The University Star. Texas State University, Web. 23 Apr. 2014.

Siskind, Sarah R. “The Harvard Crimson.” Prostitution Pros and Cons. Harvard University, 5 Oct. 2012. Web. 22 Apr. 2014.

Townsend, Mark. “Sex Trafficking in the UK: One Woman’s Horrific Story of Kidnap, Rape, Beatings and Prostitution.” The Observer. Guardian News and Media, 06 Feb. 2011. Web. 18 Apr. 2014.

Weitzer, Ronald. “Prostitution: Facts and Fictions.” Contexts 6.4 (2007): 28-33. Print.

Rogerian Argument Revision Ideas

My rough draft was not very complete, so that is an obvious problem when having others review my work. I wish I would have completed a fuller draft before posting it, but my classmates still gave me some helpful comments and ideas. For example, one mentioned how the legalization of prostitution will help decrease human trafficking, which is a majorly debated point on both side. I plan to flesh out that argument both positively and negatively, because some people believe that it will totally stop trafficking and others think it will increase it tenfold. Incorporating more details for the opposing side will also increase my essay’s Rogerian spirit, as I am afraid that I am showing too much bias in the first paragraph. I tried to make it more of an issue that both sides want to fix, but I need to revise and ensure I am not revealing my own beliefs too soon. Both gave very helpful suggestions and ideas though!

Rogerian Argument Rough Draft

Mary West

Professor Gordon

Composition II: Writing for Peace

18 April 2014

An Immodest Proposal

            The “world’s oldest profession” is not going away anytime soon, regardless of its legality. In countries where prostitution is illegal, there are many unfortunate situations that arise from the practice. Over 200,000 women and children are forced into prostitution through human trafficking every year in the United States (Human Trafficking). The victims in these situations are easy to identify, but are often blamed for the problem. Women cannot report rape for fear of being incarcerated, and brothels have no standards for safety and wellness because of their illegality. Pimps and human traffickers often control many women who fear for their lives on a daily basis, whether it be from the abuse by their pimp or from their clients, or the terror of not bringing enough money in at the end of the night. This type of situation is not healthy for anyone, but especially not for the young women who often get their start in prostitution at around age 13 (Human Trafficking). Marinela Badea is one of thousands of examples of young girls forced into this horrible crime. At only 17 years old, Marinela had been trafficked from Romania and was imprisoned in a club in England to become a prostitute (Townsend). Forced to serve up to 10 different men a day during her 12 hour shift, Marinela suffered beatings and painful sex and only earned half of what the men paid to the brothel. After several months of these daily ordeals, Marinela and other Romanian girls, some with severe mental problems, were all taken to Manchester to a brothel by the name of Shangri-La. There, they were discovered by police who kept them in jail until she was able to prove her story, and was soon reunited with her parents in Romania. Marinela’ traumatic years as a prostitute helped open Europe’s eyes to the “pan-European sex trade, [with] the vast majority [being] in Spain” (Townsend). Spain has legalized prostitution, but the sex trade still has an enormous presence there. Whether or not prostitution should be legalized or not has many arguments on both sides, but the one point both views share is the importance of protecting innocent women. Prostitution has never been a “victimless crime,” as some say (Farley). Marinela was put into jail when she was discovered, and even though she was safer behind bars than in the club, this “survivor” was treated like a criminal when she was not at fault (Townsend). Imagine your sister, mother, daughter, cousin, or female friend disappearing one day only to return years later with a story like Marinela’s. Regardless of how you feel about the issue of legalizing prostitution, no one can say that they want this to happen in their own lives.

Works Cited

Farley, Melissa, and Victor Malarek. “The Myth of the Victimless Crime.” The New York Times. The New York Times, 11 Mar. 2008. Web. 18 Apr. 2014.

“Human Trafficking: Sexual Trafficking.” Washington State Office of the Attorney General. Web. 18 Apr. 2014.

Townsend, Mark. “Sex Trafficking in the UK: One Woman’s Horrific Story of Kidnap, Rape, Beatings and Prostitution.” The Observer. Guardian News and Media, 06 Feb. 2011. Web. 18 Apr. 2014.

Ethical Argument

His Excellency

President Xin Jinping Guojia Zhuxi

The State Council General Office

2 Fuyoujie

Xichengqu, Beijingshi 100017,

PEOPLE’S REPUBLIC OF CHINA

April 8, 2014

RE: Three Citizen Journalists Detained in China

Your Excellency,

Xing Jian, only 17-years-old, is missing. His parents are worried sick, his friends cannot pay attention to their studies, and Jian could very well be dead. You, Your Excellency, can surely recall your daughter, Xi Mingze, just four years ago when she was 17. Curious, smart, ambitious, and maybe a little naïve. Her time at Harvard University proves her intelligence. Xing Jian was probably completing his exams to get into university before he was detained and whisked away to the unknown, all for giving out information about petitioners at Tiananmen Square online. Two other citizen journalists were imprisoned, Wang Jing and Liu Xuehong, and they are assumed to be in separate detention centers.

China’s long history with the United Nations is an interesting one. You are doing great things by revoking the Reeducation-Through-Labor camps, reducing online filters, and generally leaning more towards human rights. The Universal Declaration of Human Rights, published by the United Nations, is something you are surely familiar with. In Article 19, it states: “Everyone has the right to freedom of opinion and expression; this right includes freedom to . . . receive and impart information and ideas through any media and regardless of frontiers”. Unfortunately, I and many others feel like China’s behavior toward these people and countless others does not reflect well on a country who says they are a respected member of the United Nations.

The freedom to criticize the government is a right that I, as an American citizen, do not take lightly. To those overseas who do not have this basic human right as stated in the United Nation’s declaration, it is unfair, outdated, and serves no good purpose. I mean no offense, Your Excellency, but a government that cannot take criticism cannot possibly be a government that people want to have. This is an outrage that a simple post on a volunteer-run website can cause a 17-year-old boy to lose his adolescence and possibly his life, Liu Xuehong’s home to be raided, and Wang Jing’s electronics to be confiscated. I am pleading with you, a self-proclaimed esteemed member of the United Nations, to release these innocent prisoners from their detention centers immediately, and to make public the whereabouts of young Xing Jian.

If you refuse this request, then at the very least allow these three prisoners of conscience to have frequent access to their family and to lawyers whom they choose. If you comply with these requests, I, and millions of others, will look to China as revolutionizing its government and its attitude towards its hard-working and dedicated people. If you refuse, Xing Jian’s hope of a future will be gone, and Wang Jing and Liu Xuehong will be in prison for years to come, all for something the United Nations says is acceptable. If you are a true member of the UN, please work with your government to right these horrible and tragic wrongs.

Sincerely,

Mary West

 

 

Co-Exist Final

Mary West

Professor Gordon

Comp II: Writing for Peace

21 March 2014

Selfishness: Virtue or Vice?

            There are two schools of thought for almost every human trait – from quotes like “The man who does not value himself, cannot value anything or anyone” in Ayn Rand’s book The Virtue of Selfishness to “Almost every sinful action ever committed can be traced back to a selfish motive. It is a trait we hate in other people but justify in ourselves” from film producer Stephen Kendrick (Novels, Kendrick). Selfishness, in this regard, can be seen from multiple perspectives. At first glance, it might seem like selfishness is a terrible thing and must be avoided at all costs. This thought stems from a culturally negative view of the word – no one wants to be called selfish. We are taught from an early age to share toys, food, books, and just about anything we owned as children, and shamed by those older than us if we refused. As we grow up and start to realize that many actions we perform are from a selfish standpoint, it becomes harder and harder to berate others who demonstrate it more publicly. But not only “sinful actions” are committed from selfishness, good ones are too. Those who consider selfishness a “virtue” see value in allowing people to pursue their own interests, claiming that it leads to a more productive society. There are many thoughts on this subject, from Ayn Rand’s theories, to psychological and ethical views of egoism, to the Christian ideology and my own personal views. They all proclaim different ideas on selfishness, and all believe they are right. With these sources, I hope to answer the question: Is selfishness a purely negative human trait?

Selfishness, by definition, means “having or showing concern only for yourself and not for the needs or feelings of other people” (Selfish). With this definition, how could selfishness possibly be a good thing? In The Virtue of Selfishness, author Ayn Rand says that this very definition “does not include a moral evaluation, it does not tell us whether concern with one’s own interests is good or evil, nor does it tell us what constitutes man’s actual interests” (Rand 5). We cannot rely solely on dictionaries to tell us what is right or wrong, so we turn to ethics. Rand presents two contrasting ethical approaches to selfishness: altruism, meaning the “feelings and behavior that show a desire to help other people and a lack of selfishness,” and egoism, meaning “the theory that one’s self is, or should be, the motivation and the goal of one’s own actions” (Altruism, Moseley). According to Rand, “altruism declares that any action taken for the benefit of others is good, and any action taken for one’s own benefit is evil,” and she extends this thought into examples that turn the definition around (Rand 6). “Since nature does not provide man with an automatic form of survival, since he has to support his life by his own effort, the doctrine that concern with one’s own interests is evil means that man’s desire to live is evil—that man’s life, as such, is evil. No doctrine could be more evil than that” (Rand 6). While calling altruism “evil” probably goes too far, she still makes a good point. There is a fine line to be crossed when focusing on your own needs versus helping others, and this can often cause a moral dilemma for many people. For example, while there is obviously no legal obligation to help a homeless person on the street, many people would still choose to give them money, food, or other items. Rand believes that this would be an acceptable act of “self-sacrifice . . . if motivated solely by charity, compassion, duty, or altruism,” and altruism in this case would be simply the desire to help others (Rand 55). However, if a group of people encountered a homeless individual, there is a higher chance that those people would donate, but possibly out of fear of being judged by their peers or “avoiding guilt”, rather than out of the goodness of their hearts (Rand 55). This is where altruism fails as an ethical theory, and where Ayn Rand believes that “altruism has created the image of [a] brute” because of the altruist’s belief that selfishness is evil (Rand 5). Rand’s harsh and negative view on altruism does not say that you are not allowed to help people, but it should only be done if you are motivated by good, and not by peer pressure or guilt. This leads back to selfishness as a human trait – according to Rand, it is acceptable to be selfish in situations where you do not feel a sense of “charity, compassion, duty, or altruism” to help someone else (Rand 55).

Rand’s second ethical theory, egoism, is the opposite of altruism and has many different forms. Psychological egoism, the most well-know, states that humans have but one “ultimate aim: [his or] her own welfare” (Shaver). This does not mean that psychological egoists do not help others. It means that every action we perform is from self-interested behavior, but even seemingly altruistic acts are often in the matter of one’s self interest (Shaver). For example, if Anna saved Henry from their burning office building, it might be difficult to see how that could possibly be in Anna’s self-interest, given that she is risking her life by performing this act (May). A psychological egoist would still say that Anna only did it to benefit herself, by feeling like a hero or avoiding the shame that would occur if she did not rescue him, even if she did not recognize these feelings at the time (May). In this case, psychological egoism could be comparable to selfishness, and Anna’s action is a positive one because she saved Henry’s life, even if it might have been for her own benefit. However, psychological egoism is easy to refute because of its all-or-nothing nature. Other types of egoism fall more into line with a more positive view of selfishness, such as ethical egoism, which “claims that it is necessary and sufficient for an action to be morally right” if it maximizes one’s own self-interest (Shaver). In ethical egoism, believers know that if you view others as below you or as not having any weight,  then others will think the same of you (Shaver). This, however, would lead to lack of cooperation with other people, which is vital in almost all aspects of our lives. Therefore, an ethical egoist would view helping others as morally right, and they know that treating others poorly will not benefit them (Shaver). A selfish person would likely have the same type of thought process – it is okay to have my own best interest in mind, but I must also think about how others will respond to me. If I act strictly selfishly, I will not be able to do things that I want to do, because other people will not like my actions. Ethical egoism provides a way to view selfishness positively, as a believer would have to treat others with weight and respect, even if they were only trying to maximize their own long-term self-interest. For people who struggle with selfishness, ethical egoism is a good compromise that provides benefits for both the individual and their community.

Turning to religion, not much seems to be said about selfishness as a human trait. Some people believe that religions in and of themselves are a selfish concept made up by man to fulfill one’s own desires, but this cannot be a bad thing if millions of people find peace in religion (Religion as Idol). Conversely, Catholicism and Christianity seem to paint selfishness as an offense to God, even lumping it in with the seven deadly sins, when it is not explicitly stated to be one (Rolston). Holmes Rolston, a distinguished professor of philosophy, wrote Genes, Genesis, and God, which discusses how humans react toward religion versus our inherent nature, and mentions selfishness several times (Rolston). He illustrates the idea that “humans operate in culture with perhaps 50 percent selfishness and 50 percent altruism” after studying “altruistic genes” in human bodies (Rolston). Interestingly, he calls humans without altruism “beasts”, while Ayn Rand said the same of those with an altruistic nature (Rolston). Aside of scientific discussions of religion, the Bible also mentions selfishness. “Charity, or Christian love, seeketh not her own [wants],” because “a supreme regard to our own happiness is inconsistent with true religion” (1 Corinthian 13:5, Finney). However, Christianity does state that we “love our neighbors as ourselves,” and therefore “makes it a duty to love ourselves and regard our own happiness” because that is what Christians expect of others (Finney). This applies more toward “our eternal [or spiritual] interests” rather than temporary ones on Earth (Finney). Still, Christianity has an interesting viewpoint towards selfishness, as the word itself is bad, but the idea remains almost acceptable when analyzing the beliefs of the Church, since a Christians’ first duty is to God and to go to heaven and to help others do the same.

I was raised as a Christian in a Catholic school for twelve straight years, so I heard my fair share of how a Christian should act selflessly to benefit others. While I am no longer religious, I still feel rooted to those types of beliefs, though I have always believed that it is okay to put yourself first in many situations. If you make yourself happy, then you will be more “altruistic, productive, and helpful,” and be an overall benefit to society, according to Gretchen Rubin’s book The Happiness Project (Rubin). Conversely, spending all your time trying to help others will end up affecting you negatively, or will at least stress you out trying to balance your own needs with those of others. For example, in my own life, I was strongly encouraged to attend a training session presented by AmeriCorps, whom I work for here on campus. However, I would have had to miss three days of school to go, so I had to decline. That might have been selfish, as that training could have benefited the people whom I work with, but I consider my education to be my top priority. Situations like these make me think that being selfish is not a bad thing, but rather a delicate balance between being good toward others and ensuring that your priorities remain straight.

While many people still have a negative knee-jerk reaction to the word “selfish,” there are people who believe very differently. Changing your own views on a rather controversial topic will always take a lot of time and thought, but seeing different perspectives helps to narrow the choices. But, is selfishness really a purely negative human trait? I do not believe so, and I have several sources who agree with me. If used effectively, selfishness can be a helpful and necessary part of life.

Works Cited

“Altruism.” Merriam-Webster. Merriam-Webster, Web. 22 Mar. 2014.

Finney, Charles. “Wesley Center Online.” Chapter 14 Selfishness Not True Religion. Web. 31 Mar. 2014.

Kendrick, Stephen, Alex Kendrick, and Lawrence Kimbrough. The Love Dare. Nashville, TN: B & H Group, 2008. Print.

May, Joshua. “Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy.” Psychological Egoism. Internet Encyclopedia of Psychology, Web. 31 Mar. 2014.

Moseley, Alexander. “Egoism.” Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy. Web. 23 Mar. 2014.

“Novels & Works of Ayn Rand.” The Virtue of Selfishness. Web. 21 Mar. 2014.

Rand Ayn, and Nathaniel Branden. The Virtue of Selfishness. New York: New American Library, 1965. Print.

“Religion as Idol.” Religion. Web. 31 Mar. 2014.

Rolston, Holmes. “Chapter 6.” Genes, Genesis, and God: Values and Their Origins in Natural and Human History. Cambridge, U.K.: Cambridge UP, 1999. 292-370. Print.

Rubin, Gretchen Craft. The Happiness Project. New York: HarperCollins, 2010. Print.

“Selfish.” Merriam-Webster. Merriam-Webster, Web. 21 Mar. 2014.

Shaver, Robert. “Egoism.” Stanford University. Stanford University, 04 Nov. 2002. Web. 31 Mar. 2014.

Co-Exist Rough Draft

Mary West

Professor Gordon

Comp II: Writing for Peace

21 March 2014

Selfishness: Virtue or Vice?

            There are two schools of thought for almost every human trait – from quotes like “The man who does not value himself, cannot value anything or anyone” in Ayn Rand’s book The Virtue of Selfishness to “Almost every sinful action ever committed can be traced back to a selfish motive. It is a trait we hate in other people but justify in ourselves” from film producer Stephen Kendrick (Novels, Kendrick). Selfishness, in this regard, can be seen from multiple perspectives. At first glance, it might seem like selfishness is a terrible thing and must be avoided at all costs. This thought stems from a culturally negative view of the word – no one wants to be called selfish. We are taught from an early age to share toys, food, books, and just about anything we owned as children, and shamed by those older than us if we refused. As we grow up and start to realize that many actions we perform are from a selfish standpoint, it becomes harder and harder to berate others who demonstrate it more publicly. But not only “sinful actions” are committed from selfishness, good ones are too. Those who consider selfishness a “virtue” see value in allowing people to pursue their own interests, claiming that it leads to a more productive society. There are many thoughts on this subject, from Ayn Rand’s theory and psychological view of egoism to Christian, Islamic, and Buddhist religious texts. They all proclaim different ideas on selfishness, and all believe they are right. With these sources, I hope to answer the question: Is selfishness a purely negative human trait?

Selfishness, by definition, means “having or showing concern only for yourself and not for the needs or feelings of other people” (Selfish). With this definition, how could selfishness possibly be a good thing? In The Virtue of Selfishness, author Ayn Rand says that this very definition “does not include a moral evaluation, it does not tell us whether concern with one’s own interests is good or evil, nor does it tell us what constitutes man’s actual interests” (Rand 5). We cannot rely solely on dictionaries to tell us what is right or wrong, so we turn to ethics. Rand presents two contrasting ethical approaches to selfishness: altruism, meaning the “feelings and behavior that show a desire to help other people and a lack of selfishness,” and egoism, meaning “the theory that one’s self is, or should be, the motivation and the goal of one’s own action” (Altruism, Moseley). According to Rand, “altruism declares that any action taken for the benefit of others is good, and any action taken for one’s own benefit is evil,” and she extends this thought into examples that turn the definition around (Rand 6). “Since nature does not provide man with an automatic form of survival, since he has to support his life by his own effort, the doctrine that concern with one’s own interests is evil means that man’s desire to live is evil—that man’s life, as such, is evil. No doctrine could be more evil than that” (Rand 6). While calling altruism “evil” probably goes too far, she still makes a good point. There is a fine line to be crossed when focusing on your own needs versus helping others, and this can often cause a moral dilemma for many people. While there is obviously no legal obligation to help a homeless person on the street, many people would still choose to give them money, food, or other items. Rand believes that this would be an acceptable act of “self-sacrifice . . . if motivated solely by charity, compassion, duty, or altruism,” and altruism in this case would be simply the desire to help others, not the entire ethical theory (Rand 55). However, if a group of people encountered a homeless individual, there is a higher chance that those people would donate, but possibly out of fear of being judged by their peers or “avoiding guilt”, rather than out of the goodness of their heart (Rand 55). This is where altruism fails as an ethical theory, and where Ayn Rand believes that “altruism has created the image of [a] brute” because of the altruist’s belief that selfishness is evil (Rand 5). Rand’s harsh and negative view on altruism does not say that you are not allowed to help people, but it should be done if you are motivated by good, and not by peer pressure or guilt. This leads back to selfishness as a human trait – according to Rand, it is acceptable to be selfish in situations where you do not feel a sense of “charity, compassion, duty, or altruism” to help someone else (Rand 55).

Works Cited

“Altruism.” Merriam-Webster. Merriam-Webster, Web. 22 Mar. 2014.

Kendrick, Stephen, Alex Kendrick, and Lawrence Kimbrough. The Love Dare. Nashville, TN: B & H Group, 2008. Print.

Moseley, Alexander. “Egoism.” Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy. Web. 23 Mar. 2014.

“Novels & Works of Ayn Rand.” The Virtue of Selfishness. Web. 21 Mar. 2014.

Rand Ayn, and Nathaniel Branden. The Virtue of Selfishness. New York: New American Library, 1965. Print.

“Selfish.” Merriam-Webster. Merriam-Webster, Web. 21 Mar. 2014.

China’s Lost Girls

China's Lost Girls

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I have been very interested in Chinese society for many years, and back in high school I made a lengthy presentation on how the One-Child Policy and traditional Chinese thoughts have led to a significant gender imbalance in China. I knew I wanted to create something that showed a potential outcome of this fact, and I remember reading a quote that said a large amount of Chinese men of marrying age will be unable to find wives in the coming years.

I found this photo on a wedding photography site, and I blurred out the girl and made her fade into the background in order to show there are very few women who are able to be married. I tried to make her look ghostly to show the 37 million and growing “lost girls” from forced abortions and sex-selective birthing methods. I created the large text on the right which is messy and crooked to show the unfair policies put in place by the Chinese government, which is also why there is the Chinese flag as the background for the text, with the stars showing through. The main text has general information about the tragedy occurring,  but makes the viewer want to know how and why. All Girls Allowed is a real website that is dedicated to exposing this topic to everyone and rescuing and healing people affected. This website is where I learned most of the facts about the Chinese gendercide, so I thought it would be appropriate to promote it through my ad.

Anti-War Graffiti Comes to Life

Banksy is a graffiti artist and political activist from the United Kingdom. He is well known for controversial views expressed through his intricate, detailed, and quite often darkly humorous street art. Quite a few of his pieces express an obvious anti-war and pro-peace sentiment, which are expressed through his use of color, detail, and humor.

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This first image shows a group of children playing around what is presumably a bomb that just exploded. They seem happy, and are probably doing something akin to “ring around the rosie” except instead of singing and dancing around a rose bush, they are doing it around destruction and war. The red in the cloud of smoke could represent the blood of those who the bomb affected. The bomb itself symbolizes how the children’s hope is blowing up into smoke, and cannot last. Banksy’s statement here is that war is making children think that death and destruction is a good thing, because they are using it as a plaything. Even the location of this art is well-placed, as it is low to the ground on a wall and therefore the green grass around the image can be seen. While not an official part of the art, I am sure Banksy chose that spot for a reason. The green contrasts with the red extending up through the cloud of smoke, and makes it seem like the children are just playing in a park or somewhere similar. Overall, Banksy’s purpose of this image comes through very well, and it is a disconcerting image that makes people want to know more.

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Many of Banksy’s images, especially those which stand for peace and are anti-war, feature children. Unlike the previous image, this one features a lone girl hugging a missile. She is most likely a school girl, and rather young given her ponytail and clothing. She seems almost at peace with the fact that she is in such close proximity with a deadly weapon. Banksy’s purpose with this piece of art is most likely that war and destruction is coming right up against our children, face-to-face. This image is almost funny when you first see it, as it makes absolutely no sense literally. Looking beyond that, though, and it is easy to see how he proves his point. War and children have no place together, but they continue to be subjected to it.

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A House Divided Cannot Stand

Mary West

Rebecca Gordon

Comp II: Writing for Peace

8 February 2014

A House Divided Cannot Stand

            My parents are not bad people. They have always supported me, understood me, and given me some wonderful opportunities. They always mention how proud they are of me, and how they are so glad that I grew up into a lovely young woman. Whenever I hear that phrase, though, I know what they are really saying; they are happy that I am not gay. They love that I have a boyfriend (although I know that they wish he was white), and they are happy I am not wasting my education (although they think my dream of managing a non-profit business is foolish). They do not have to say those things, because it is obvious that is how they really feel. I can get by in my family, though, but not everyone in it is so lucky. Several years ago, when I was still rather young, my cousin Whitney told my family that she is gay. Ever since then, my parents have cut off all communication with her. I know she is in her 30s, has a wife named Becca, and they have two little girls they adopted soon after marrying. I only know this much because other, less judgmental family members have told me. The only information my parents give me is that Whitney and her wife are raising lesbians who will fail at school and life, and eventually go to hell. They call her a “fag” and a “dyke,” and barely consider her a person. Though I do not believe the same things my parents do, I am interested in why they think those things. They are not religious, beyond believing that God sends good (straight) people to heaven, and bad (gay) people to hell. They are older, though; my mother is 50 and my father is 60, and I do believe that their ages definitely come into play regarding their views on subjects like this. They grew up believing that homosexuality was a mental illness and that people who identified with it should be ostracized from society. Unfortunately, their views did not change along with most of society. In this essay, I will explore some of their misconceptions about homosexuality and lesbian parents, and also show how a lack of familial support often leads to real mental illnesses.

One thing I hear very often when Whitney’s family comes up in conversation is that they are raising their children to do poorly in school because of the lack of a permanent father figure in their lives. Daniel Potter of the American Institutes for Research agrees that “Children in traditional families (i.e., married, two biological parents) tend to do better than their peers in nontraditional families” (Potter, 556). Nontraditional families include situations like “stepparents, single parents, and cohabitating parents,” but same-sex parents are not mentioned (Potter, 556). Rather, Potter believes and proves that “children with lesbian mothers or gay fathers do not exhibit the poorer outcomes typically associated with nontraditional families” (556). The poor outcomes he mentions fall in line with my parents’ thoughts on children with gay parents, because children with two biological parents often have “higher test scores . . . steeper learning trajectories, and complete more years of education relative to children in divorced, single-parent, and stepparent families” (556). Again, though, same-sex parents seem to be the “exception to [the] pattern” of nontraditional families and their impacts on education (556). My parents also have brought up that they believe a child should have parents of both sexes, in order to be “exposed to” what Potter’s research calls “healthy emotional and psychological development” (556). He mentions the opposing view with research stating that “households with two fathers or two mothers cannot provide necessary socialization experiences,” but “mounting evidence” has proved against these views (556-7). “Children’s development is unaffected by living with same-sex parents,” and for those children who are adopted, “same-sex partners are able to meet all the demands necessary for effective . . . family functioning” (Potter, 557; Erich, 11). I have shown studies like these to my parents in the past, but they adamantly refused to change their views. Another study explains that “social support is a key resource in allaying some of the stressors associated with parenthood” (DeMino, 167). However, my parents still chose not to help my cousin and her family in any form. Despite all the evidence showing that children are often unaffected by growing up in a same-sex parent household versus a more “traditional” one, and that familial support strengthens children’s development, my parents still do not believe it. At this point, I think the only thing that would change their minds is to see Whitney’s daughters graduate from college and get married (to men, of course). While I do not know if that will happen, all I can do is continue to try and push against their views; maybe one day they will realize the truth.

Disney Introduces Its First Lesbian Couple on “Good Luck Charlie” 

While many people still share the same views as my parents, society is changing constantly. The media certainly helps sway views, and exposure to different lifestyles helps people to be less afraid of them.

Click on the picture to watch the video.

My parents have likely not considered the psychological ramifications of isolating my cousin. I remember seeing Whitney fairly often when I was much younger, and she was an important part of my family’s life at that point, and up until she came out, my parents enjoyed being around her. Whitney’s parents divorced when she was young, and my mother often served as a surrogate when she was growing up. In a study by Amy Barnard concerning lesbian women and the causes of depression, “dysfunction in one’s family of origin was cited as a primary underpinning of depression” (Barnard, 379). They interviewed a woman in her 20s who said that “ever since [she] told her [mother] that [she] was gay . . . [her mother became] depressed and blamed it on [her daughter]” (Barnard, 379). The woman “[feels] very alone [and that she] can’t trust people, and [feels] like [she] is fighting the world” (379). She wonders “why [it has to] happen to [her]” (379). While I do not know if my cousin has these feelings because of my family’s isolation of her, it is still very sad that my parent’s ignorance could possibly lead to these feelings of loneliness and even giving up hope and feeling that her life might not matter. During the interviews of twelve lesbian women, “code words relating to family [were mentioned] 223 times,” showing that familial institutions play a huge role in how one looks at themselves, be it positively or negatively (379). “Five [of the twelve] women were not able to come out to their families for much of their lives, [and for] four women, religious values” prevented them from telling their families (379). To read about all these women struggle with familial relationships simply because of their sexuality is very sad. To see it happening within my own family is even worse. I wish my parents would realize that it is not only Whitney who is losing family members, but that they are as well. I can only hope that Whitney is not mentally affected by my parents’ refusal to talk to her, but if I was in her shoes, I know I would be.

Talking to my parents about anything regarding homosexuality only encourages them to make jokes and induce vulgarity. The future might bring compromise to this situation, but for now, all I can really do is not tolerate these beliefs in my own life, and continue to try and educate my parents. The evidence is all there: children in same-sex households are not affected to a degree that would give anyone claim to discourage lesbian or gay parents from raising children. I am also a member of the Young Democrats, and we are constantly trying to promote marriage equality in all of our efforts. While my parents’ views might not ever change, I always try and encourage others who share their views to educate themselves. I hope other families are learning to accept members who live alternative lifestyles, and are not promoting hatred and isolation.

Works Cited

Barnard, Amy. “Lesbians’ Constructions Of Depression.” Health Care For Women International 30.5 (2009): 373-389. MEDLINE with Full Text. Web. 8 Feb. 2014.

DeMino, Kathleen A., George Appleby, and Deborah Fisk. “Lesbian Mothers With Planned Families: A Comparative Study Of Internalized Homophobia And Social Support.” American Journal Of Orthopsychiatry 77.1 (2007): 165-173. PsycARTICLES. Web. 8 Feb. 2014.

Erich, Stephen, et al. “Gay And Lesbian Adoptive Families: An Exploratory Study Of Family Functioning, Adoptive Child’ S Behavior, And Familial Support Networks.” Journal Of Family Social Work 9.1 (2005): 17-32. SocINDEX with Full Text. Web. 8 Feb. 2014.

Potter, Daniel. “Same‐Sex Parent Families And Children’s Academic Achievement.” Journal Of Marriage And Family 74.3 (2012): 556-571. PsycINFO. Web. 8 Feb. 2014.

Family is Everything Rough Draft

My parents are not bad people. They have always supported me, understood me, and helped give me some wonderful opportunities. They always mention how proud they are of me, and how they are so glad that I turned out well. Whenever I hear that phrase, though, I know what they are really saying. They are happy I’m not gay. They love that I have a boyfriend (although I know that they wish he was white), and they are happy I am not wasting my education on something they would consider frivolous (although they think my dream of managing a non-profit business is ridiculous). They do not have to say those things, but it is obvious that is how they really feel. I can get by in my family, though, but not everyone in it is so lucky. My cousin Whitney came out as gay several years ago, when I was still rather young. Ever since then, my parents have cut off all communication with her. I know she is in her 30s, has a wife named Becca, and they have two little girls they adopted soon after marrying. I only know this much because other, less judgmental, family members have told me. The only information my parents give me is that Whitney and her wife and raising lesbians who will fail at school and life, and that they are all going to hell. My parents’ version is obviously a bit harder to believe. Though I do not believe the same things my parents do, I am interested in why they think those things. They are not religious, beyond believing that God sends good (straight) people to heaven, and bad (gay) people to hell. They are older, though; my mother is 50 and my father is 60, and I do believe that their ages definitely come into play regarding their views on subjects like this. They grew up believing that homosexuality was a mental illness and that people who identified with it should be ostracized from society. Unfortunately, their views did not change with the times. In this essay, I will explore some of their misconceptions about homosexuality and lesbian parents, and also show how a lack of familial support often leads to real mental illnesses. Hopefully, this will help guide any further discussion I may have with my parents and encourage them to let go of their outdated views.

One thing I hear very often when Whitney’s family comes up in conversation is that they are raising their children to do poorly in school because of the lack of a permanent father figure in their lives. Daniel Potter of the American Institutes for Research agrees that “Children in traditional families (i.e., married, two biological parents) tend to do better than their peers in nontraditional families” (Potter, 556). Nontraditional families include situations like “stepparents, single parents, and cohabitating parents,” but there is no mention of same-sex parents (Potter, 556). Rather, Potter believes and proves that “children with lesbian mothers or gay fathers do not exhibit the poorer outcomes typically associated with nontraditional families” (556). The poor outcomes he mentions fall in line with my parents’ thoughts on children with gay parents, because children with two biological parents often have “higher test scores . . . steeper learning trajectories, and complete more years of education relative to children in divorced, single-parent, and stepparent families” (556). Again, though, same-sex parents seem to be the “exception to [the] pattern” of nontraditional families and their impacts on education (556). My parents also have brought up that they believe a child should have parents of both sexes, in order to be “exposed to” what Potter’s research calls “healthy emotional and psychological development” (556). His opposing research states that “households with two fathers or two mothers cannot provide necessary socialization experiences,” but “mounting evidence” has proved otherwise (556-7). “Children’s development is unaffected by living with same-sex parents,” and for those children who are adopted, “same-sex partners are able to meet all the demands necessary for effective . . . family functioning” (Potter, 557; Erich, 11). I have shown studies like these to my parents in the past, but they adamantly refused to change their views. Another study explains that “social support is a key resource in allaying some of the stressors associated with parenthood,” but my parents still chose not to help my cousin and her family in any form (DeMino, 167). Despite all the evidence showing that children are often unaffected by growing up in a same-sex parent household versus a more “traditional” one, and that familial support strengthens children’s development, my parents still do not believe it. At this point, I think the only thing that would change their minds is to see Whitney’s daughters graduate from college and get married (to men, of course). While I do not know if that will happen, all I can do is continue to try and push against their views; maybe one day they will realize the truth.

An aspect of isolating my cousin from their lives that my parents have most likely not considered is a psychological one. I remember seeing Whitney fairly often when I was much younger, and she was an important part of my family’s life at that point, and up until she came out, my parents enjoyed being around her. Whitney’s parents divorced when she was young, and my mother often served as a surrogate when she was growing up. In a study by Amy Barnard surrounding lesbian women and the causes of depression, “dysfunction in one’s family of origin was cited as a primary underpinning of depression” (Barnard, 379). They interviewed a woman in her 20s who said that “ever since [she] told her [mother] that [she] was gay . . . [her mother became] depressed and blame it on [her]” (Barnard, 379). The woman “[feels] very alone a lot of the time, [and she] feels like [she] can’t trust people, and [feels] like [she] is fighting the world” (379). She wonders “why does this have to happen to [her]” (379)? While I do not know if my cousin has these feelings because of my family’s isolation of her, it is still very sad that my parent’s ignorance could possibly lead to these feelings of loneliness and even giving up hope and feelings that her life might not matter. During the interviews of twelve lesbian women, “code words relating to family [were mentioned] 223 times,” showing that familial institutions play a huge role in how one looks at themselves, be it positively or negatively (379). “Five [of the twelve] women were not able to come out to their families for much of their lives, [and for] four women, religious values” prevented them from telling their families (379). To read about all these women struggle with familial relationships simply because of their sexuality is very sad. To see it happening within my own family is even worse. I can only hope that Whitney is not mentally affected by my parents’ refusal to talk to her, but if I was in her shoes, I know I would be.

Talking to my parents about anything regarding homosexuality only encourages them to make jokes and induce vulgarity. The future might bring compromise to this situation, but for now, all I can really do is not tolerate these beliefs in my own life, and continue to try and educate my parents. The evidence is all there: children in same-sex households are not affected to a degree that would give anyone claim to discourage lesbian or gay parents from raising children. The only thing preventing and discouraging that is bias and ignorance. I hope other families are learning to accept members who live alternative lifestyles, and not promoting hatred and isolation.